WILL YOUR LOVE WAX COLD?
did Jesus Christ forewarn that during our time, many — even in
His Church — will hecome calloused, hard, unsympathetic? Will you
be one who will let your love grow cold? How can you make certain this
doesn't happen to you?
IN the Olivet Prophecy, Jesus foretold the world-shaking events leading
up to His Second Coming. He showed that worldwide hate would lead to
wars (climaxing in World Wars), famines, pestilences, and widespread
Then Christ sounded a fearful warning!
"All these are the beginning of sorrows. Then shall they deliver you up
to be afflicted, and shall kill you [referring to the terrible end-time
persecutions, culminating in the Great Tribulation!]; and ye shall be
hated of all nations for my name's sake. And then shall many be
offended and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another. . .
. And because iniquity shall abound, THE LOVE OF MANY SHALL WAX COLD"
(Mat. 24:8-12) !
Have you taken this warning from your very Saviour personally? Have you
made an inventory of your life lately to be sure you are not guilty of
this charge ?
Christ also solemnly promised the overcomers: "He that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved" (verse 13).
Speaking of His Second
Coming, Jesus gave another solemn warning in this Olivet Prophecy: "But
and if that evil servant shall say in his heart, My Lord delayeth his
coming: And shall begin to smite his fellowservants and to eat and
drink with the drunken; The lord of that servant shall come in a day
when he looketh not for him, and in an hour that he is not aware of,
and shall cut him
asunder. . ." (Mat. 24:48-51) !
Is it possible for a "servant" of God to get careless and begin smiting
his own fellowservants ? Whether or not this means that such an "evil
servant" would literally smite his fellowservants, or whether it refers
to him smiting his fellowservants ivith his tongue — one of the
crudest kinds of injury — this warning is, nonetheless, very
explicit in pointing out the lack of true, deep love which some will
exhibit toward their brethren!
Don't Lose Your First Love!
The Church at Ephesus (typifying the Apostolic Church era) made the sad
mistake of letting its first spiritual glow grow faint. And this
happened to the very people who heard the inspired messages from the
lips of Christ's chosen Apostles!
Christ rebuked the Church of Ephesus for only one sin — "because
thou hast left thy first love!" It grieved our Saviour very much to see
those early New Testament Christians let their spiritual love —
for God, for the brethren and for God's Work — diminish! He
wanted to see them keep up their first love — and increase it!
The same applies to us today!
What did Christ point out as the solution to this serious problem?
"Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the
first works; or else, I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove
thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent"
This divine counsel points out the real answer to the problem of all those who have left their first love!
Do you remember the love, zeal and warmth toward God, His people and
His Work, which you had at the time of your conversion? Repent! Get
back to the beginning. Confess your wretched condition to God! Ask Him
to mercifully forgive you for letting yourself get into this hardened
condition; then pray for divine strength and guidance so that you may
become an overcomer — and eventually inherit a place of
ruler-ship in the soon-coming, glorious Kingdom of God!
Universal Lack of Natural Affection
What are some of the reasons why people become hardened in a cold, unmerciful attitude — totally lacking in compassion ?
Today's widespread lack of "natural affection" is a worldwide,
cancerous-like spiritual affliction! And the seeds of this lack of love
and compassion often take root early in our lives!
Truly, we are living in the perilous times — the latter days
— foretold by the apostle Paul: "This know also, that in the last
days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own
selves . . . without natural affection ... fierce"
(II Tim. 3:1-3).
This prophecy clearly reveals that in our time men would be
self-lovers. But they would be woefully lacking in the natural
affection which a normal person should possess toward his fellowman.
They would have
extreme hostility (fierceness — verse 3) toward
their neighbours, instead of loving their neighbours as themselves.
Paul also showed that this world's leaders, both religious and secular,
do not like to retain God in their knowledge (Rom. 1:28)! This is
certainly true of most of today's churches, colleges and other man-made
institutions of learning! Man's religious organizations and his secular
institutions of higher learning are primarily responsible for producing
this blighted, bumper crop of hardened minds!
Since this world's leaders don't wish to retain God in their knowledge,
God has given them over to "a reprobate mind" (verse 28). Such minds
are destitute of the real truth—"Being filled with all
unrighteousness . . . maliciousness . . . murder . . . malignity . . .
despiteful . . . without NATURAL AFFECTION, implacable, unmerciful , .
." (Rom. 1:29, 31). Such hate-filled minds often display open hostility
not only toward their fellowmen, but also toward their very Creator
(Rom. 8:7) ! There are other important reasons for this universal lack
of "natural affection." Stop!—look carefully around you for the
The seeds of ruthlessness are planted early in life! In today's
topsy-turvy world, little tots are brought up playing with "killer
toys." They figuratively "mow down" their own brothers, sisters,
In the typical home, these same children are often subjected to
constant family bickerings between various members of the family
— between husband and wife, parents and children — between
members of the family and the outside community.
Then, in addition, today's children are often not shown the right type,
or the right amount, of real love and affection by their parents and
other members of the family. Such children, reared in this dog-eat-dog
society of ours, soon conclude that, if they are to survive, they will
have to look out for number one — and let the devil take the
But this isn't all! Modern children from infancy on up, are subjected
to a continual, insidious barrage of horror and violence via
TV, the cinema and
other forms of mass entertainment. Such little children (potential sons
of God!) are also the victims of their nation's propaganda —
which conditions their little pliable minds to hate the supposed
enemies of their country — the Germans, Japanese, Russians,
Chinese, Jews, Arabs.
Worldwide Hate and Violence
Remember, Jesus Christ foretold that these days immediately preceding
His return to this earth in supernatural splendour would parallel the
days of Noah. And in Noah's time, "the earth was filled with violencf."
But never before in mankind's 6,000-year history has he been subjected
to such unprecedented hate and violence: hot and cold wars, race riots,
family brawls, rapes, muggings and other types of bodily assaults
—- not to mention the vicarious "enjoyment" of ready-made
violence through our entertainment media.
In this heartless world, human beings often have more concern for their
pets than they have for their fellow human beings. When the Russians
first shot a dog into space, countless Britons loudly voiced their
protests! But when a man was later sent up into space, there was hardly
A London paper recently reported: "Laddie was Mrs. Lewis' whole life.
The dog was kept in the matrimonial bedroom and slept on the bed. . . .
The judge [who granted a decree nisi to Mr. Lewis] said Mr. Lewis moved
a chair to make way for a visitor in front of the television set. The
dog was bumped or stepped on and yelped.
"Mrs. Lewis complained that he did not even say he was sorry to the dog
and she then attacked and punched her husband in front of the guest."
When will human beings come to their senses?
The 40 million human beings (including over 6,000,000 Jews) killed
during the terrible carnage of World War II offer mute testimony of
this world's cold, cruel, heartlessness!
You and I, members of God's Church, grew up in this harsh, competitive
world. Whether we realize it or not, we have
imbibed all too freely of this world's ideas and attitudes. Without
realizing it, we have become tainted with this worldwide lack of
But, are we doomed to remain shackled with this world's dog-eat-dog attitude of mind? Certainly not!
God has solemnly promised: "For sin shall not have dominion over you:
for ye are not under the [death penalty of the] law, but under grace
[pardon]" (Rom. 6:14).
Our Creator has bound Himself to provide a means of deliverance from
every temptation we will ever face: "God is faithful, who will not
suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the
temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it"
(I Cor. 10:13).
How to Overcome this Hardness
There are three vital steps we must take if we want to overcome a hardhearted attitude.
First, we need to recognize the fact that many in God's Church ARE
sadly lacking in natural affection! This is the first step in
overcoming this spiritual disease.
Next, we must admit our lack, confess it to God, and ask our loving
Creator to help us overcome this universal lack of compassion for
Then, we must do our part to overcome this character weakness —
by drinking in of the mind and character of God through prayer and
diligent Bible study.
We can learn how to overcome this lack of natural affection by
carefully studying God's Word to see how the great men of the Bible
(Christ, David, Joseph) thought and acted — how they exhibited
great love and compassion toward others. And we can see how these men
of God showed real godly affection. By diligently studying, and
carefully following, their examples, we can and will overcome this
universal spiritual affliction — this gaping lack of natural
Christ's Infinite Compassion
Christ's earthly life was a perfect, shining example — revealing
His deep love, mercy and compassion for all men. He continually taught
men to have a forgiving, merciful attitude toward their fellowmen.
"Blessed arc the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy" (Mat. 5:7).
God hates cruelty (Prov. 11:17; 12:10)! God disinherited two of Jacob's
sons (Gen. 49:5-7) because of their cruelty in slaying all the men of a
certain town — when only one man was guilty (Gen.
Jesus further admonished us: "For if ye forgive men their trespasses,
your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men
their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your
trespasses" (Mat. 6:14, 15).
The person who is unmerciful toward others will be judged harshly by
God! "For he [the unmerciful person] shall have judgment without mercy,
that hath shewed no mercy" (James 2:13).
Christ not only taught mercy and compassion; He also practised it! And
His ultimate, supreme sacrifice upon the cross was the final capstone
— proving His boundless love and compassion for all humanity!
Notice carefully the following examples of the deep compassion which Jesus Christ felt for ordinary, erring people.
On one occasion, Jesus noticed the milling throng, and was deeply
touched at the thought of their spiritual wretchedness. "But when He
saw the multitudes, He was moved with compassion on them, because they
fainted, and were scattered abroad, as sheep having no shepherd" (Mat.
9:36). Christ then told His disciples that they should pray that God
would send more labourers into the harvest (verses 37, 38).
On another occasion, "Jesus went forth, and saw a great multitude, and
was moved with compassion toward them, and He healed their sick" (Mat.
Christ performed His miracle of multiplying the loaves and fishes
— because of His deep feeling for the people: "I have compassion
on the multitude," said Jesus (Mat. 15:32).
Two blind men, sitting by the roadside near Jericho, cried out to Jesus:
"Have mercy on us, O Lord, thou son of David" (Mat. 20:30). Jesus never
turned a deaf ear to any cry for mercy or help. This was no exception.
"So Jesus had compassion on them, and touched their eyes: and
immediately their eyes received sight, and they followed Him"
On still another occasion Christ was deeply moved by the sorrow of a
widow who had lost her only son: "And when the Lord saw her, He had
compassion on her, and said unto her. Weep not. . ." (Luke 7:13). Jesus
then raised her dead son to life — out of sheer pity for this
One of the most moving examples of Christ's deeply felt emotion was
shown through His profound concern over the awful calamity about to
befall the inhabitants of Jerusalem — the very ones who would
later cry out for His blood! Jesus stood upon the Mount of Olives,
surveying the rather peaceful-looking city of Jerusalem, lying below:
"And when He was come near, He beheld the city, and wept over it,
saying, If thou hadst known even thou, at least in this thy day, the
things which belong unto thy peace. . . . For the days shall come upon
thee, that thine enemies [the Romans] shall cast a trench about thee,
and compass thee round, and keep thee in on every side, And shall lay
thee even with the ground, and thy children with thee; and they shall
not leave in thee one stone upon another . . ." (Luke
And His prophecy was fulfilled with dreadful accuracy, as recorded by
Jo-sephus. The Romans razed Jerusalem, butchered and slaughtered many
thousands of Jews inhabiting the city. The victors carried the rest of
the Jews to the far-flung corners of the Roman Empire — as bond
And then, after Christ had spent three and one-half years "going about
doing good, and healing all that were oppressed of the devil," He
obediently, willingly gave Himself in the supreme sacrifice on the
stake at Golgotha. Jesus, even in His agonizing death throes, was so
filled with love, mercy and compassion that He was able to summon up
enough pity to exclaim: "Father, forgive them; for they know not what
they do" (Luke 23:34)!
Those were the words of the most noble, self-sacrificing and
compassionate man ever born of woman! What an example for us to follow!
Christ certainly never let His love for people "wax cold"!
Joseph's Natural Affection
Another shining example of one who possessed great "natural affection"
— was Jacob's son, Joseph. His brethren, because of envy, sold
him into slavery. Later, after he had become the Prime Minister over
all of Egypt, Joseph revealed his love and compassion for his
For some time Joseph purposely concealed his true identity from his
brethren; nevertheless, he supplied them and their families with plenty
of food to nourish them.
Finally, however, Joseph could contain himself no longer. In one mighty
burst of love and compassion, he revealed to his startled brethren that
he was in fact their long-lost brother, Joseph, whom they had sold into
slavery many years previously!
"Then Joseph could not refrain himself before all them that stood by
him; and he cried, Cause every man to go out from mc . . . and he wept
aloud: and the Egyptians and the house of Pharaoh heard. And Joseph
said unto his brethren, I am Joseph" (Gen. 45:1-3).
Toseph, revealing great mercy, asked them not to be grieved because of
their past sin against him in this matter: "And he fell upon his
brother Benjamin's neck, and wept; and Benjamin wept upon his neck.
Moreover he kissed all his brethren, and wept upon them" (verses 14,
Any lack of "natural affection" here? Any false modesty against a man
shedding tears here? Certainly not! The Bible does not teach that a
real "he-man" should never show his emotions !
David, of all men mentioned in the Bible, was spoken of as being a man
after God's own heart (I Sam. 13:14). Does God have human-like
emotions? Yes, the Scriptures reveal God has emotions — love,
hate, sorrow — very similar to those
possessed by a balanced, emotionally
David was a robust, whole-hearted, likeable person. He made a number of
serious mistakes; but when these sins were pointed out to him, he
bitterly repented. (See II Sam. 12:13 and Psalm 51.) He learned the
real meaning of mercy!
David cried out to God: "Have mercy upon me, 0 God . . . blot out my
transgressions. Wash me throughly . . . cleanse me from my sin. For I
acknowledge my transgressions . . . Against thee, thee only, have I
sinned, and done this evil . . . Purge me with hyssop . . . wash me,
and I shall be whiter than snow . . . Hide thy face from my sins, and
blot out all mine iniquities. Create in me a clean heart, O God; and
renew a right spirit within me" (Ps. 51:1-10). Yes, David really
repented of his adultery, and subsequent murder!
Just what kind of a man was David? He was a man of considerable emotion, and he possessed a lot of natural affection.
On many occasions during his life, David showed his loyalty to God and
to King Saul, by repeatedly refusing to take Saul's life! But Saul's
envy and cruelty drove him to seek David's destruction !
David's depth of natural affection — his great compassion —
was perhaps best revealed in his behaviour at the death of
his rebellious son, Absalom.
Absalom committed insurrection against his father. By flattery and
deceit he "stole the hearts of the men of Israel" away from loyalty to
his father, David (II Sam. 15:1-6). Absalom's high treason finally
culminated in his proclaiming himself king instead of his father, David.
David and his loyal servants had to flee to keep from being slain. In
spite of Absalom's treachery, David loved this son so much that he
sternly charged his soldiers not to harm him. This command, however,
was not obeyed. Joab "took three darts in his hand, and thrust them
through the heart of Absalom, while he was yet alive in the midst of
the oak" (II Sam. 18:14).
When David was informed that Absalom had been slain — what was
his reaction? "And the
king was much moved, and went up to the chamber
over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son
Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O
Absalom, my son, my son!" (II Sam. 18:33.)
David's grief was so bitter that he "covered his face, and the king
cried with a loud voice, O my son Absalom, O Absalom, my son, my son!"
(II Sam. 19:4.)
Yes, David was a man who had a tremendous capacity for compassion. Many
of the Psalms David wrote are filled with deep emotion. They reveal the
mind of a merciful, compassionate person!
David could never praise God enough for the limitless mercy and compassion which God had personally granted him.
"The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in
mercy. . . . Like as a father pitieth his children, so the Lord pitieth
them that fear him. . . . But the mercy of the Lord is from everlasting
to everlasting upon them that fear Him... to those that remember His
commandments to do them" (Ps. 103:8-18).
Learn to Be Compassionate!
Can you, brethren, now see the importance of learning to express more
compassion — especially in this age when there is so little
natural affection in the world? If we don't naturally have sympathy and
compassion for people, then God will give it to us — if we ask
Him for it in faith! "And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in
prayer, believing, ye shall receive," said Jesus Christ (Mat. 21:22).
We must learn to be soft-hearted. But this does not mean we should be soft-headed!
Two of Christ's disciples, James and John, seem to have been rather
uncom-passionate, hard-boiled men by nature. Christ "surnamed them
Boanerges, which is, The sons of thunder" (Mark 3:17).
Their hell-fire-and-damnation approach to life is revealed in an
incident as recorded in Luke 9:51-56. On this occasion, the Gentile
Samaritans would not receive Christ and His disciples. This angered
James and John, the Sons of Thunder!
"And when . . . James and John saw this, they said, Lord, wilt thou
that we command fire to come down from heaven, and consume them, even
as Elias did?" (Luke 9:54.) They were ready to teach these Samaritans a
lesson or two!
"But He turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of
Spirit ye are of. For the Son of man is not come to destroy men's
lives, but to save them" (verses 55, 56).
A careful study of the epistles of the apostle John will lead you to
the conclusion that he later became filled with much more love and
compassion — after he was filled with the Holy Spirit at
Pentecost. His epistles reveal a great deal of love. So, we see that it
is possible for God's Spirit to give His children added love and
"Bowels of Mercies"
In this competitive, cut-throat, dog-eat-dog world in which we live,
there is very little compassion, mercy or even natural affection. But,
even though we may not have been born with a lot of natural affection,
we can receive God's supernatural love, mercy and compassion —
after we repent, are baptized and receive His precious Holy Spirit.
This is the vital "power from on high" (Luke 24:49; Acts 1:8) which
changed a cowardly, cringing Peter into a man of boldness (Mat.
26:69-75; Acts 2:14-40).
Some members of the very Body of Christ let themselves get upset
because of something which one of their brethren says or does (or
supposedly says or does) ! Instead of ignoring, overlooking and
forgiving the insult (or the supposed wrong) such people develop a
hard, unmerciful attitude.
They let some disappointment, some grievance (or imagined grievance)
disturb them so much that they finally let a "root of bitterness"
spring up in their heart — thereby becoming defiled; and they
sometimes contaminate others with their hard-hearted, bitter attitude!
We are commanded: "Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of
God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby
many be defiled" (Heb. 12:15).
Yes, brethren, we need to be very careful
not to let hate fill our hearts. Don't ever let your love and
compassion grow cold! We must learn to follow Christ's example:
"Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do!"
For this reason we are commanded: "Put on therefore, as the elect of
God, holy and beloved, BOWELS OF MERCIES, kindness, humbleness of mind,
meekness, longsuffenng; Forbearing one another, and forgiving one
another, if any have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you,
so also do ye. And above all these things put on CHARITY, which is the
BOND OF PER-FECTNESS" (Col. 3:12-14).
We are further admonished by James, the brother of Jesus Christ, to be
very careful to show pity and compassion: "If a brother or sister be
naked, and destitute of daily food, and one of you say unto them,
Depart in peace, be ye warmed and filled; notwithstanding ye give them
not those things which are needful to the body; what doth it profit?"
(James 2:15, 16.) James shows that faith without works is dead!
And the apostle John was inspired to add: "But whoso hath this world's
good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his BOWELS OF
COMPASSION from him, how dwelleth the love of God in him?" (I John
We All Need God's Mercy!
How do you react to the suffering of others? Have you become so
calloused or hardened toward suffering that you no longer feel any real
sympathy (or empathy) toward those who suffer deprivation or physical
We must all beware lest we become so hardened in sin that we let our
love grow cold — lose our first glow of love, warmth and
I am sometimes appalled to see the hard, critical attitude of some
members of God's Church — toward their own brethren, or even
toward people in the world. We should never say or think: "It served
him right!" "He had it coming!"
We are commanded not to even so much as rejoice when our enemy stumbles or falls (Prov. 24:17).
One of the best ways to learn compassion is to develop the habit of
putting yourself in the place of the other person who may be suffering
deprivation, embarrassment, shame, physical pain. Don't judge too
quickly, and don't ever condemn! You can't always know the motives
behind a person's actions.
We are commanded: "Speak not evil of one another, brethren" (James 4:11).
How can we make sure that our love doesn't grow cold ? How can we learn
to have more compassion and natural affection for people? Here's how:
(1) Realize that we are lacking in affection.
(2) Confess our lack to God, and ask Him for His love,
mercy and compassion (imparted by His precious Holy Spirit) to help us
overcome our lack.
(3) Diligently search the Scriptures so we can note and follow
the examples of the holy men of God — men who did have a lot of
natural affection —
men who did show a lot of compassion toward their fellowmen.
We can Overcome!
Through God's help we can overcome any lack of natural affection!
With His help, we can learn to have more compassion for people! We can
really overcome our character weaknesses ! And if we keep close to God
in study, prayer and fasting, we will overcome!
Brethren you have seen Christ's warning — that "the love of many
shall wax cold!" You now know what God requires of you. It is up to
you, with the help of God, to overcome any lack of natural affection
— any lack of compassion — which you have developed
through the years!
Your love will not grow cold — if you willingly let God's Spirit
mould within you God's very character — His love and compassion!
reprint from the GOOD NEWS magazine April 1967