Ruling on Women's Dress
Have
some women been defiant - or merely careless? Must God's Ministers
exercise God's AUTHORITY to enforce ruling concerning too short and too
tight skirts?
by Herbert W. Armstrong
In the September, 1962, number of The GOOD NEWS an article appeared on this subject. It was PLAIN SPEAKING!
It said, "In this instruction to the spiritual children in God's
Church, your Pastor is making this correction to those who need it, I
sincerely hope, PLAIN ENOUGH, and PAINFUL ENOUGH that it shalI not need
repeating!"
But now, four years later, IT DOES NEED REPEATING!
And this time I know that the living HEAD of God's Church-Jesus Christ
directs that His AUTHORITY be used, if necessary, to ENFORCE the ruling
which comes' straight from the very Word of GOD!
Of course, we must bear in mind that The Church of God is today TWICE
as large in membership as it was four years ago, Perhaps HALF of the
women in the Church did not read the former article. On the other
'hand, I have seen some women flagrantly violate this Ruling who have
been in the Church several times four years!
Embarrassment For All
And I want to say, before quoting from the former article, that
God's ministers are quite frequently embarrassed, while preaching in
the pulpit, by women wearing too short skirts that do not cover their
knees, sitting with their knees spread apart at least eight or ten
inches. Usually the careless ones are middle-aged or elderly women.
Just once, I believe, have I personally noticed this inexcusable
carelessness on the part of a colIege girl. This happens REPEATEDLY.
Personally, I have not wanted to publicly embarrass these women. But
if, after this article has appeared in print, such carelessness occurs
again in my sight, I shall personally reprimand such women regardless
of the painful embarrassment it may cause them!
In our teaching on child rearing, based on God's Word, we teach parents
to speak plainly JUST ONCE-and then punish. The women guilty of this
neglect are old enough to know better, but they are our spiritual
children, and I am instructing all ministers to PRACTICE WHAT WE
PREACH, and ENFORCE this ruling!
When the article appeared in 1962, women were beginning to wear skirts
up to the knees. Today they are becoming more daring, and wearing them
two to eight inches above the knees.
The teaching of God is MODESTY.
The reprinted article, below, makes it abundantly plain that God's
instruction DOES NOT call for women to go to the opposite extreme. God
is the author of BEAUTY. He wants His daughters to be beautiful,
consistent with proper modesty. And what is proper modesty? God gives
us the PRINCIPLE involved. He leaves it to His ministers, led by His
Spirit, to apply the principle to specific instances.
Applying that principle, the RULING is, then, that the daughters of God
must not go to either extreme. Current fashions and styles of the world
dictate what, at anyone time, is the extreme, and what is the happy
medium that modestly avoids the extreme. As fashions are today, that
means women may wear skirts up to the knees-that is, JUST BELOW the
knee-cap, BUT NOT EXPOSING IT WHEN STANDING. Women should wear skirts
of sufficient length to cover the knees when sitting.
It is embarrassing to me, personalIy, when I see a woman in constant
embarrassment tugging away at her skirt while she sits, to make it
cover her knees when it simply is not long enough to cover them. Or, as
so often happens, now, because her skirt comes merely to her knees when
sitting, but leaves them completely exposed, she continualIy tries to
pulI her skirt tightly around her legs just above the knee, fastening
the skirt underneath, between her legs and the chair.
No woman is going to look out of style, or attract attention to herself
by wearing skirts long enough to cover the knees-even when sitting.
Women who care more for what GOD thinks than what this rotten, filthy,
doomed WORLD thinks, will immediately let out any skirts shorter than
that. Those who care more about what THE WORLD thinks than God will
mark themselves as PART OF THE WORLD -and NO LONGER MEMBERS OF GOD'S
CHURCH.
Since the last article on this subject, the Ruling has been so
flagrantly ignored or disobeyed that the time has come TO ENFORCE this
Ruling. God's Ministers are instructed to act accordingly.
And THIS INCLUDES THESE TOO TIGHT SKIRTS.
By that, I mean these skirts taken up just below the hips, so they
FORMFIT the buttocks, clinging tight behind and under the place where
they OUGHT to be SPANKED! I know that nearly all skirts are made that
way today. But;
1) you do not have to buy that kind, and
2) if you have them, you can, and MUST, if obedient, let them out at
the seams. And if NOT obedient, God's ministers will know you are part
of this world, and not of God's
Church.
God is not a harsh or unreasonable God -nor are His ministers harsh,
stern or unreasonable. We are merely defining womanly MODESTY. God's
Church must be obedient. It must be kept morally pure!
Now READ AGAIN the article of four years ago:
1962 by Radio Church of God BELOW:
Good News Magazine Article 1962
Ruling on Women's Dress
Have
some women been defiant - or merely careless? Must God's Ministers
exercise God's AUTHORITY to enforce ruling concerning too short and too
tight skirts?
WHY does the-Word-of God confine His instruction regarding
modest apparel, and the adorning of the person with clothes, to the
WOMEN?
Did God desire to discriminate-to make women uncomfortable-to show
partiality to men? Does God intend for men to show off themselves in
ornamental and gay attire, while He commands women to make unsightly
scarecrows of themselves?
Of course we know better than that. There is nothing in God's
instruction to make women appear ugly, or to make them uncomfortable.
On the contrary, many, if not most, women will suffer any amount of
discomfort in their worship of the goddess Dame Fashion.
God's REASON
God never shows partiality. He never discriminates against individuals,
sexes, races, or whoever. Yet God's Word does carry
specific-instruction for-women-to be modest in their dress-and no
corresponding instruction for modesty in men's clothing is given. WHY?
There is a reason! I think, candidly, that the girls and women in God's
Church know the answer. And for that very reason some of them seem to
want to violate God's. instruction!
What I am going to say applies only to a few. Women in God's Church are
different from those of the world. But a very few need severe
correction.
I do not mean that even these few go to the extremes of ridiculous
fashion so commonly seen in the world. You won't see-any member of
God's Church wearing artificially striped hair, green eyelids, and a
purple mouth, decked out in outlandish dress design and overdone wacky
jewelry. But, in the category of too short and too tight skirts, and in
excessively low-neck dresses, some of you women and girls need a sharp
rebuke from God's ministers!
Now WHY does God's Instruction Book contain admonition regarding modesty in women's dress, and not regarding men's?
In all three colleges I personally teach a class in Principles of
Living. This class includes God's instruction in regard to sex and
marriage. Sex responses operate in the mind, and the male mind does not
react in the same manner as the -female mind in relation to sex. Sex
consciousness, and arousal, in the male, is brought about much more
quickly than in the female, and is stimulated by sight, or even by
imagination, in a manner that has little effect on females.
God made the female body to be attractive to the male. This attraction
may be, and should be, one of sheer beauty. But also it may be, and
under many circumstances often is, a stimulation of LUST. Especially
when certain parts of the female figure are emphasized, such as the
hips and buttocks by tight skirts, the low neckline exposing portions
of breasts, or too-short skirts exposing more than is modest of the
female leg.
I am quite aware that it is the current fashion, in the world, to wear
short knee-length (and now above) skirts extra tight around the hips.
But the women in God's Church have come out of the world, and are
different--or else they have not been put into His Church . by
God. God's daughters do not find it necessary toconform to this
world, going along in its extremes of daring, or wrong, styles.
Candidly, when I see a female with a skirt tight enough to call
attention to the shape of her hips, especially when tight below the
hips and under the buttocks, I know that she is either careless and
needs sharp admonishing or else she is wearing it. deliberately to
attract male eyes and arouse lust toward her in men's minds.
Do 'you want to know my personal reaction when I see such an example?
It makes me feel that such a girl or .woman needs either a good lecture
driven home by a sound SPANKING of what she so brazenly displays, or to
be classed as a fallen woman and a common prostitute.
THAT IS PLAIN LANGUAGE! I mean it to be plain, and I want the women in
God's Church to know it is coming from God's Minister, who speaks by
Christ's authority!
Recently some of our girls and women have been wearing skirts that are
entirely TOO SHORT! Often I have felt I ought to speak personally to
some of you. If this article does not quickly correct this evil-AND IT
IS AN EVIL! --God's ministers will be instructed to
begin speaking personally and in a manner that ought to cause a deep
sense of shame and produce a very red face on any girl or woman who
invited such sharp rebuke from a Minister of God!
When many of you women wear skirts as high as (and now above) the knee,
and which completely expose the knees when sitting, your skirts are an
abomination in GOD'S eyes. I wonder, frankly, if God doesn't blush when
HE sees you! Are you women who do this, deliberately trying to tempt
men into breaking the spirit of God's law against adultery? Are you
trying to make yourselves adultresses? Are you not breaking the very
spirit of that law, your selves?
In our instruction to parents in proper child rearing we teach that
when you spank your child, it must be sufficiently severe to impress
the lesson painful enough that he will not want to cause it-to be
repeated-very- soon. In this instruction to the spiritual children in
God's Church, your Pastor is making this correction to those who need
it, I sincerely hope, plain enough and painful enough that it shall not
need repeating!
Neither Extreme
God's Church does not teach, nor does God's Word when rightly
understood, that women should go to the opposite extreme of wearing
ill-fitting, overly loose skirts that drag the dust and pick up germs.
I am not saying that your neckline must be so high that all the neck is
covered. God is not the author of UGLINESS, any more than of confusion
or evil. God is the Great Artist who has designed all the beauty of
nature. Consequently, in conformity with the Word of God, God's Church
encourages women to dress neatly, pleasingly, attractively within the
bounds of proper modesty and good taste, and even with sufficient
becoming style to. express personality and individuality. God Himself
expressed. perfect artistry in beautiful design in nature - in the IiIy
- the rose-beautiful trees, shrubs and plants - in prize-winning
livestock-and even in the beautiful human body, when healthy and not
degenerated.
For women to dress becomingly yet modestly, there is no need to
disguise the human figure by grotesque ultra modern styles that make
them look like lampshades, T-squares, or triangles. The world goes
either to that extreme, or to the extreme of undue emphasis on breast,
hips, and legs.
But it is in this latter category that some-yes, too many -- of our
women offend. More than once I have seen a few of our women, in evening
dress, exposing entirely too much female breast-with neckline cut so
low as to show a goodly portion of breasts, with a crease in the
middle. On one or two occasions, I have instructed Mrs. Armstrong to
speak to such women, telling them plainly that their necklines are too
low.
Women's breasts, in plain language, were designed by God to nurse
babies -- not to be flaunted immodestly to arouse lust in men.
In the matter of too-tight skirts around the hips, the excuse often is
that the girl has taken on weight-and she protests that she cannot help
it. But she can help it, and if she is to remain in God's Church or
enter God's Kingdom, she must--one of two ways: either don't remain
overweight (fasting and proper diet will cure that quickly), or let out
the seam.
We want our women to be beautiful -naturally beautiful, pleasingly
attractive, in good style, well groomed-but not artificially so, and
this may be accomplished WITH FULL MODESTY.
It is the over-emphasis of lust-arousing portions of the female body that MUST BE CORRECTED.